Monthly Archives: September 2014

To those I love

Soon you will know.  And you’ll probably hurt because of it. You may be confused, or think that I’m confused. Maybe you’ll wish this is all “just a phase” just like some of you thought when I came out as … Continue reading

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Outside the binary

Not so long back, when I still tried so very hard to be a Real Woman – albeit a real butch lesbian – I thought that binary was something to do with computers. Programming. Ones and zeros. That kind of … Continue reading

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The perfect time

Now that I’ve admitted to myself and gotten used to the idea that I am a transguy, I find it ever more annoying when people misgender me. Oh, I know it’s only to be expected. I don’t pass yet, and … Continue reading

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I entered puberty late, which was both a blessing and a curse. A blessing, because I’d been really small for my age for as long as I could remember, and this allowed me to add some much wanted and needed … Continue reading

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